Note to SELF!

Sometimes it just has to be all about YOU, I mean ME.1. Learn to say NO! I've learnt that niceness will get you nowhere in this world but heaven. People will take advantage of you. But if you really can't bring yourself to say no, maybe you can say "I really can't, because i've used up all my YESes for this month". See, that wasn't soooooo bad.2. Life is short; eat a DONUT! And if it's gonna be a donut, it better be a krispy kreme one. Life is too complicated to worry about how many grams of Trans Fat will be floating in my arteries. Let me worry about that when i'm like 70.3. Worry less or moderately. Hahaha..I have to laugh at this one. That's like telling me to cut my air inhalation by half and save oxygen. WHY? Trust me, it does work. If you can't fix it or have control over it, LET it GO. The universe or a higher power will definately take care of it.4. DREAM small, medium, big! Whatever the case just dream. Seriously...i know that some dreams just seem impossible, but have you tried? And i'm not talking dreaming while sleeping, like one I had years back of making out with Sean Paul backstage at one of his concerts:). I've still not pursued that dream. Even God wants us to have a vision of our lives.5. It's okay to GOSSIP! I think i got your attention with this one. As a much as I hate gossip about who's doing what, who, where, how and when, you have to savor it when it comes to work. I mean, you don't want to be last person to know that people are getting laid off or who's getting promoted. If it affects you in anyway, then you need to know.6. LAUGH at people...on TV..or anytime. I'm not talking about laughing at someone's misery but when something is comical. I've had people laugh really had at me when I decided to walk into a glass door at a party, coz my ass was toasted! It was funny. Lauging is good for your soul, more than smiling. Smiling leaves lines that need botox;)7. Be INTUITIVE! Follow your insticts always. How do you think all those species survive in the animal kingdom? If something doesn't feel or look right then avoid it by all means. I know it's hard sometimes but it could save your life.8. BE and DO YOU! Know one knows you better than you and God. Be true to yourself. Not everyone will like you despite of your awesome personality, charm, kindness and good looks. So be the best you can be for yourself.